Tuesday, December 4, 2007

Sexology 101 - The number of partners make you a better lover?


This is something that guys usually bring up, "I fucked 18 girls in the last 2 years!" They use women as a conquest, trophies, another notch in the belt. But if these guys told every woman they were about to score that she's just to serve as an ego booster in front of their friends and her name will be replaced by a number, I highly doubt that she will still consent to sex, who would?

So let's bring it out in the open, does a higher number signify a better lover? Will it increase you from a 6 to 7 on the love-making scale?

Want to know what I think? I think it's bogus! I know a guy who is only 20 years old and had sex with 19 women. Also, I know another guy who is 23 but has only had sex with 3 women. Guess who literally got the most action? Man # 2.

The first guy just had sex with each woman once or twice and if he got really lucky, he had sex with them 3 times. But for the sake of argument I'll round this up to 5 times each woman X 19 women = 95 times. Remember, I'm going way over for man # 1. But the most he could of had sex is 95 times.

Meanwhile guy # 2 was in 3 long-term relationships. His first partner was a high school sweetheart. They had sex regularly for 2 years. His next partner was an old college flame who he was with for 2 years and had sex regularly during those 2 years. And now he is engaged to be married to a woman he has been with for the last 3 years and has had sex regularly with her. There is no way I can even begin to count but let's suppose he had sex twice a month, that totals to over 180 times. THAT IS TWICE AS MUCH AS GUY # 1!

So do the number of women we score necessarily signify us as better lovers? I don't think so.


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